How we doing? Are all you turkey-eaters wandering around Black Friday-Shop Small Saturday-and whatever marketers have deemed today is-sales in a tryptophan haze? Did ya drink, eat and party a little too much this week? Exercise a little too little? Okay, take three nice, slow, easy breathes. Pour yourself a big glass of water, squeeze a little lemon in it (if you have it… ) and read on.
Every year from Thanksgiving to New Year’s Eve, I kind of feel like I am holding my breath. Then on New Year’s Day, I exhale with relief that it is all over. I know there are people that wait all year long for just this time and revel in it (probably in the same way I feel about late Spring and Summer) but I imagine that I am not alone in finding all the trappings, over-indulgence and pressure of the Season a bit OVERWHELMING (if I could make that word blink like a neon sign I would.)
I gave away my Christmas decorations in 2010 and opted for just a fresh wreath on my front door ever since. I lived alone and didn’t celebrate the holidays at home. So what was I buying a tree and hanging pine boughs and lights every year for? My mom thinks it makes me a bit of a Grinch but it’s been one of my better decisions. We are all bombarded with holiday images and music everywhere we go from now until New Year’s. For me, it was really nice to pass that wreath and be at home where I can control the stimuli I am influenced by.
It is really easy to get knocked off balance by brilliant marketers who want us to consume more, our own sense of guilt and obligation to make sure other people are happy and just the sheer volume of temptation that is available this time of year. It is REALLY easy to overdo everything: spending, eating and drinking…
So, this is my suggestion: Take a pause. Before buying holiday gifts, pause and remind yourself what you can afford to spend. Before grabbing that decadent, beautiful oh-so-tempting red velvet cupcake, pause and say to yourself, “I am going to enjoy this because I make healthy choices at least 80% of the time and I exercise regularly.” (If you don’t eat healthfully and exercise regularly, pause and ask yourself, “when I am I going to determine that I am worthy of being healthy and feeling good?”) Before you grab that cocktail, pause and remind yourself what your limit is for the evening and determine to drink a full glass of water in between each drink.
Since we’re doing all this pausin’, the end of the year is a really good time to pause and reflect back on everything that has happened over the last eleven months and determine what we are grateful for. And really isn’t that Thanksgiving is all about?
By the way, I am very grateful for all the people who take time to read my blog. Thank you so much! I also really appreciate the comments, wisdom and kind words readers have shared. You guys rock!
Love and Blessings to All,